Are You My Soulmate?

Are you in search of your soulmate? Well on the larger scheme of things in my belief, we are all soulmates on some level, we are all one big soul broken up into individual souls. We have clusters or matrixs that groups us together that create this concept of soulmate connections. These clusters/matrixs consist of our closest relationship that includes family, friends, and lovers. These clusters can shift, readjust or realign as our souls evolves. That is when some of our relationships goes through break-ups, divorces, going off to college and even death. These are natural occurrences and evolutions, even though we physically may separate, we still have a spiritual connection with the other soul. Emotionally this may be hard but spiritually this is inevitable and necessary. Each soul is on it’s own journey and need to follow the best course for their own evolution. We are here to assist one another on that journey and sometimes that means even letting them go.

As we evolve and rediscover who we truly are as spiritual beings we open the door up to having deeper connections with others thus,creating a true soulmate connection. This experience is more spiritually driven, it flows easier and it is less demanding of the other person. You will share your life on a deeper level and will go into this relationship looking to bring gifts instead of looking to see what you can get. You will experience less emotional drama and upsets and will understand the concept of bliss in your relationships. I will go into this more in my next blog titled “Divine Love: How to Maintain a Spiritual Partnerships.” But for now we will begin at the beginning with the definition of the term soulmates. I figure it’s a good idea to understand the definition and origin of what your looking for. I found these definitions on wikipedia ( I do the research so you don’t have to:)

*Definition of Soulmates

Soulmate, the wikipedia definition is a term sometimes used to designate someone with whom one has a feeling of deep and natural affinity, friendship, love, intimacy, sexuality, spirituality and/or compatibility. A related concept is that of the twin flame or twin soul – which is thought to be the ultimate soulmate, the one and only other half of one’s soul, for which all souls are driven to find and join.

*Classic Meaning of Soulmates

The concepts of soulmates arose from Greek mythology. According to the story, our ancestors once had 2 heads, 4 arms. They did something to offend a god so that god punished them by splitting them down the middle, resulting in the creation of humans. As a punishment, we are condemned to spend our lives searching for the other half, our soulmates.

*Spiritual Soulmate Concepts

Many religions and spiritual paths believe in reincarnation and the concept of karma. Through reincarnation, soulmates may spend many lifetimes together in past lives. Other spiritual methods of searching for one’s soulmate are astrology, numerology, palm reading, personality types, and magic. Modern spiritual paths often blend western and eastern philosophies.

*Companion Soulmates

These are people that we encounter through our life. These are usually friends, teachers, mentors, or other people who have helped you achieving a life’s goal or helped you out of a crisis.

*Twin Soulmates

These types of soulmate are your closest friends or a person whom you really click with. According to those who believe in reincarnation, you have already met them in a past life, and in this life you are continuing the relationship. There is an emotional bond between these soulmates and each is able to sense the feelings of each other.

*Twin Flame Soulmates

This is the most popular type of soulmate. There is usually one twin flame soulmate for each of us. Twin flame soulmates have spent multiple lifetimes together in past lives. There is incredible chemistry and attraction towards each other. They “complete” each other and only few lucky people are able to find their twin flame soulmate. Twin flame soulmates, if separated, usually suffer enormous pain.

*Recognizing your Soulmates

In order to recognize your soulmates as they come into your life, you must be tuned in to your own soul. In order to attract your soulmate, you must allow yourself to become more of who you truly are, more of your authentic self. This will allow for the best soulmate experience and give you the flow you are seeking in relationships with others. If you don’t have a good relationship with the most important soul in your life, which is you, it will be difficult to enjoy or for that matter even attract a harmonious soulmate connection into your life.

You define your experiences in your life, you are the creator, your choices at each moment is creating your life and your mind is the most powerful tool you have in this creative process. My hope for you is to first love and accept yourself just as you are, then seek to share the wonderful, dynamic, unique expression of God’s love to the world which is you,with another. You must know this, you are truly a blessing and a gift to this world, worthy of love and all that is good…..I know this to be true and my wish for you is to know this, too!

Exercises to get us closer to the source and lead us closer to the love we seek. For the next 30 days try this out and see what changes occur in your life –

Meditate for at least 10 minutes a day -Sit in a quiet space and breath deeply, allowing your breath to cleanse your body, mind and spirit. Release all tension and thoughts and relax as God speaks to your heart. You can say a mantra- for example, I AM LOVE, over and over again as you get closer to the true source of unlimited unconditional love and that is GOD (or whatever you choose to call your spiritual source)

Visualize for at least 10 minutes a day, see in your mind what you believe true love looks like, feel in your heart and spirit what it feels like, I mean really feel it, it is your life and your imagination you can have it just the way you like it, you are a co-creator with the creator, so don’t limit yourself, ask and you shall receive.

Affirm Daily at least 10 times:

I LOVE AND ACCEPT MYSELF UNCONDITIONALLY JUST AS I AM. I AM WORTHY OF LOVE JUST BECAUSE I AM ME. You can write it down on an index card and put it where you can see it everyday, recite this to yourself out loud as you look in the mirror, feel what you are saying, this will become a truth for you the more times you repeat it.

Create a Vision Board, I have been doing this for years before it became popular with the secret. I loved arts and crafts and always had an excess of magazines, I found it to be very therapuetic and now I learn that it is also a way to ignite the Law of Attraction and to bring things into your life. So I suggest this as a therapist and as a spiritualist. All you need is a cardboard, magazines, glue stick and scissors. Then just let your spirit guide you, whatever pictures or words you are attracted to cut them out and place them on the board. I suggest putting positive images that you would like to see show up in your life. for example, the one I have has a section for love, career, spirituality and wealth. Be creative, there is no wrong or right way, have fun with it.

These exercises will assist you with beginning the process of self-discovery and attract more love into your world and allow you to have a deeper “soulmate” connection with others. I wish you the highest good in your life and a truly divine experience of love. It is what life is all about. Love is what you are made of and it is all around you just take a moment to soak it in.

It is such a pleasure to be here for you and with you on this wonderful journey of life. I know all of my clients are divinely drawn to me making them apart of my soul matrix and making us soulmates, thanks for showing up, you are a blessing!

Be Free.